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      • 37. The Whiner
      • 38. Reckoned Righteous by Works
      • 39. Are New Year's Resolutions Biblical?
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      • 40. One of the Greatest Need America
      • 41. Your Memorial Table
      • 42. George W. Bush Verses Saddam Hussein
      • 43. Learning to Listen
      • 44. The Problem with Gambling
      • 45. Memorial Day
      • 46. My Ecounter with an Orthhodox Jew
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      • 48. What My Auto Accident Taught Me
      • 49. The Decline in Family Living
      • 50. Give Me a Problem
      • 51. Decoding the Da Vinci Code
      • 52. Thanksgiving is not a Holiday
      • 53. What a Christmas Present!
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      • 54. What Do You Mean by that?
      • 55. What are Parents to Do?
      • 56. "The Passion of Christ"
      • 57. Martha Stewart's Greatest Lesson
      • 58. Same Sex Marriage
      • 59. A Tribute to a Servant
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      • 61. Independence
      • 62. Kerry's Logic
      • 63. The Olympic Spirit
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      • 66. Now that the Election is over
      • 67. Tribute to My Mother
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      • 68. Real Spiritual Growth
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      • 70. The Ten Commandments Controversy
      • 71. Do We Need a Pope?
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      • 73. Examples Worthy of Note
      • 74. How Two Different People Learned to Get Along
      • 75. "The God who Wasn't"
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      • 78. "In God We Trust"
      • 79. The Redemption of Tookie Willaims
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      • 80. Is Religion a Problem?
      • 81. The Rights of the Born
      • 82. Did You Hear What She Said about Muslims?
      • 83. Judas: Betrayer or Best Friend?
      • 84. Weekend or Week--Beginning?
      • 85. A Tribute to My (Spiritual) Father
      • 86. Your Relationship to the Word of God
      • 87. What an Opportunity!
      • 88. America's Four Gods
      • 89. How to Deal with Your Enemies
      • 90. The Case for Systematic Exposition
      • 91. Don't Miss the Message
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      • 92. I can Afford it!
      • 93. The Gospel according to Patricia
      • 94. The Functional Church
      • 95. Who wants to Deal with a Taxman?
      • 96. Vital Virtures
      • 97. Have You Grown up Yet?
      • 98. A July 4th Reminder
      • 99. The Volume of Silence
      • 100. Biblical Illiteracy
      • 101. A Modest Political Propospal
      • 102. How to Handle Credit Cards
      • 103. When it is Tough to be Thankful
      • 104. Romney's Religion
    • 2008 Articles 105-114 >
      • 105. Continue
      • 106. A Tribute to Jack
      • 107. Why Good Ftiday?
      • 108. Happy Birthday
      • 109. The Most Important Room in the House
      • 110. The 80-20 Rule
      • 111. Be Sensible
      • 112. To Be Like Christ
      • 113. Sweet Reasonableness
      • 114. The Other Benefit of Christmas
    • 2009 Articles 115-126 >
      • 115. What Determines who Obtains Eternal Life?
      • 116. The Healing Touch
      • 117. The Function of Dysfunction
      • 118. When Your World Falls Apart
      • 119. 24-7-365
      • 120. To Complain or not to Complain
      • 121. "Suggestions"
      • 122. Making a Mark
      • 123. God's Timing
      • 124. Jesus Wept
      • 125. Andrew
      • 126. The Cost of Service
    • 2010 Articles 127-138 >
      • 127. Don't Ask; Don't Tell
      • 128. A Forest Dark
      • 129. The Rule of Law
      • 130. The Hits and Miss of Grace
      • 131. People Need the Lord
      • 132. Examples Worthy of Notes
      • 133. A Hassle Reduction Strategy
      • 134. Gossip
      • 135. My Favorite Poem
      • 136. Let's Put the Cross in its Place
      • 137. "Don't Spare Me"
      • 138 The Unseen Message of Christmas
    • 2011 Articles 139-147 >
      • 139. What Parents Should Teach their Children
      • 140. How to Avoid Having to Serve
      • 141. What Happen to Mike?
      • 142. An Atheist Recommends God
      • 143. Surprise
      • 144. Socialism
      • 145. Union, Unity, and Uniformity
      • 146. Get in the Way
      • 147. "Let George do it."
    • 2012 Articles 148-160 >
      • 148. Truth or Consequences
      • 149. Don't Leave Home without it
      • 150. Take a Break
      • 151. The Worth of an Individual
      • 152. A Tribute to Nana
      • 153. Jesus Crossed the Line
      • 154. Thomas Jefferson
      • 155. Taxes
      • 156. You Must be Present to Win
      • 157. A Grandfather's Wish
      • 158. Trials. Temptations, and Tests
      • 159. Is There a Santa Claus?
      • 160. A Tribute to Sumner Wemp
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      • 161. How to Finish Well
      • 162. Rewards
      • 163. Spiritual Binging
      • 164. There is no way out of this one
      • 165. Half Empty or Half Full
      • 166. Nones
      • 167. Greet One Another with a Holy Kiss
      • 168. God's Answer to Atheism
      • 169. Obedience
      • 170. The Problem of Fellowship with God
      • 171. Character Development
      • 172. For Mercy's Sake
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      • 173. Lies
      • 174. Endure to the End
      • 175. Teaching Children How Money Grows
      • 176. The Principle of Delay
      • 177. By Their Fruit
      • 178. Sermons that Changed My Life
      • 179. If Paul Harvey were the Devil
      • 180. The Principle of Practice
    • 2015 Articles 181- >
      • 181. In Wrath Remember Mercy
      • 182. Choosing the Right Shepherd
      • 183. The Lord's Requirements
      • 184. Your Ear Lobe. Thumb, and Big Toe
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A Hassle Reduction Strategy

I hate hassle. I hate hassle with a passion. I dislike conflict and confrontation. I detest the irritation of not being able to find something such as my car keys. I deplore deadlines that do not give me time enough to do something at a relaxed pace. Over the years, I have developed a hassle-reduction strategy. I am not always consistent in practicing it, but when I do, it definitely reduces the aggravation in my life.

Keep Short AccountsPeople problems are probably one of the greatest sources of hassle in everyone’s life. Differences, disagreements, disputes, etc. cause tension, or worse. The hassle is in having to deal with it.

Keep short accounts with the people. I hate confrontation, but I have learned that an appeaser is a troublemaker; the loving confronter is the peacemaker. The longer a problem in a relationship goes on, the larger and more distorted it grows. Deal with difficulties daily. Do not let the sun go down on your wrath (Eph. 4:26).

Have a Place for EverythingOne of the greatest hassle producers in my life is not putting things where they belong. I lay things down and forget where I put them. Then I get irritated at myself when I can’t find them.

An old adage says, “A place for everything and everything in its place.” The key here is, wherever you put something, it must be in a place that is retrievable. Think backwards. Ask yourself, “When I need this, where would I look for it?” That is where you should put it.

Do What Has to be DoneProcrastination sows seeds that bloom into hassle. Putting things off for tomorrow that should be done sooner, is an almost guaranteed way to ferment hassle. When mail and phone calls pile up, you are set up for a royal hassle. The hassle is the unfinished task that hangs over you like a dark cloud. If you are like me, the last thing you think about before falling asleep, or the first thing in your head when you wake up, is that list of unfinished obligations.

When I was in junior high school, a teacher made us memorize her definition of education. It was, “Do what has to be done, when it has to be done, whether you like it or not.” I question that as a definition of education, but there is no doubt that it is an excellent strategy for hassle reduction. I would add, “Do it with a good attitude.” As Paul says, “Do all things without complaining and disputing” (Phil. 2:14).

Do not procrastinate. As much as possible, do things that come up—such as processing the mail—daily. Return phone calls as soon as possible.

In short, when I do what I am supposed to do and do it in a timely manner, it greatly reduces the hassle in my life.

                                   © G. Michael Cocoris, 7/30/2010
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